On Air Personality Toke Makinwa has resumed her Vlog series and the topic is Church Boys Vs Club Boys. Newly Married Toke shared this video on her blog. Toke supported Club boys and talked about the tricks Church boys apply to get girls to date. Some date girls citing they saw a vision and some break up with girls with the same method. Some take advantage of girls.Toke is insinuating that the club boys you are running away from may be better.
I have to ask ; Is there a determining factor that the place you meet someone can assent to a person's behavior?.
My two Naira is ; There are good stories of Church boys and there are "not so good" stories of Church boys, same goes with Club boys but my mama always told me this:
A sheep is better than a wolf
A sheep may go astray,eat poo-poo etc
But a sheep has a shepherd that will always bring the sheep back to its Fold
Some willfully return to the Shepherd.
Is my Mama right?
Is my Mama right?
Can a wolf do that? No matter how tamed and dutiful a wolf is,once it goes haywire...What can bring it back? Can it come back on its own.
That is my Two Naira
Lets read what you think, share your experiences too, who knows who will be touched by it and i can learn a thing or two from it.
When it comes to niceness, church-going guys or boy as you may call it might be the new boy next door. Sure, they get pegged as close-minded, liberal-haters. Chances are, if you neglect the media image and peek into the next Sunday morning service, you'll find someone who encompasses the following qualities.
ReplyDelete1. He uses clean language. Granted, he'll probably let slip a "frick" or a "darn," but by golly, it's a lot cuter than a slew of f-bombs.
2. More than likely, he adheres to the verse, "Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit," which means that he doesn't smoke, do drugs or get drunk. At most, he'll indulge in a quality cigar at a party or in a gin and tonic at happy hour, but you won't need to worry about cleaning him up afterward. As an added perk, he can always volunteer as the designated driver.
3. Unless he sleeps through every service, he has a high attention span. Bring up a couple of points from an hour-long sermon and see if you're not a little bit impressed when he can discuss them in depth. Bonus points if he can connect the current sermon to the previous week's topic.
4. He's consistent. Getting up early on Sunday mornings to hear a sermon and sing for a couple of hours takes a good amount of dedication. Of course, we're referring to the guys who attend service more often than on Christmas and Easter.
5. He's a romantic. If he believes in God, there's a good chance he also believes in destiny. He takes dating and women so seriously that he might even pray before asking you out. If he prays often in his own time, he has probably prayed for the future love of his life—which could be you—before you even met.
Hence church boys is preferred over club boys.
Note: I aren't saying that there are no better club guys, (after all most of them are better than the church boys who don't what the bible is talking about) but if we base our spat on a concrete Nuptials life will should be considering the church boys over the club guys
My humble take is: if I'm looking for love, I won't go to the club looking for one... So it depends on what one is searching for. Both 'church' n 'club' guys(cos one may be both) can be caring(depending on what u see as care), and also a jackass!
ReplyDeleteChurch Boys for me...I'm heading to Church tomorrow so i can see more of them.
ReplyDeleteIt's true that a sheep is better than a wolf, but it's better 2go out wit a real man than being decieve all in the name of church. So just be patience, observe and study him
ReplyDeleteIt's true that a sheep is better than a wolf, but it's also better 2go out with a real man than being decieve all in the name of church. So Just be patience, observe n study him
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